The article really hits the spot. After reading it I didn't feel like such a freak.
"In contrast, after an hour or two of being socially "on," we introverts need to turn off and recharge. My own formula is roughly two hours alone for every hour of socializing."
Yup. That's about right. For me, just replace "recharge" with "play Quake."
The article was written to help extroverts comprehend that not everyone is the same as them. I don't think Charlie paid much attention while reading it. I think he just thinks it's funny, which it is, but it's loaded with valuable information. He continues to not understand that I don't see the point of small talk. Or that slapping me on my shoulder somehow goes from not acceptable to acceptable, if you just do it enough times.
That's a great article. Best line IMO is "Introverts are people who find other people tiring."
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ReplyDeleteHow can I let the introvert in my life know that I support him and respect his choice? First, recognize that it's not a choice. It's not a lifestyle. It's an orientation.
Ohhh. JC has an alternative "orientation."
I knew it. I just knew it. And that's illegal in most states, you freak.
Wow, how can you survive a weekend at grammy's? I really admire you.
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